For A Sexy Life

Mónica Soto Icaza #ForASexyLife is a bestselling author and literary entrepreneur specializing in erotic literature. Known for her distinctive blend of subtle eroticism, humor, rebellion, and innovation, she has built a career promoting freedom and a healthy relationship with sexuality through her writing.


As the only independently represented author with her own stand at major book fairs in Mexico and around the world, Mónica has carved out a unique space in the literary landscape. Under her imprint #PorUnaVidaSexy (#ForASexyLife), she publishes novels, poetry, short stories, and essays that challenge norms and invite readers into a bold, liberating experience.


Mónica is also a columnist for Playboy México and Vértigo Político magazines, where she continues to explore themes of desire, identity, and empowerment. Driven by a fearless creative vision, Mónica Soto Icaza remains committed to pushing boundaries and achieving what once seemed impossible—one provocative page at a time.

The books:

The protagonist of Heels for Kicks is a heroine who allows us to experience the process of infidelity step by step, in her colorful heels. She doesn’t portray the victim we’ve seen for years, but rather a woman who transforms pain into joy and, in the process, obtains revenge, profit, and a great deal of pleasure. She shares with us the possibility of discovering that there are men capable of loving us even when our Prince Charming, or the one we thought was our Prince Charming, no longer loves us. This is a tremendously funny, profound, and sensual novel that presents a renewed version of the role of women in chapters that are an adventure you’ll want to devour. It is the portrait of a wounded woman, capable of doing anything; it is the redemption of the female sex taken to the extreme with a wealth of humor, eroticism, and intelligence.
On the night of December 6, 2015, a thrashing occurred at the corner of Avenues Paseo de la Reforma and Mariano Escobedo in Mexico City. The protagonists? Annika’s husband and her lover. In this novel, Annika tells us the events that led to the incident, starting May 10, 2009, Mother’s Day—the date she learned of her husband’s infidelity—to the reasons why she heard, “if I killed you, I’d be doing you a favor” from the lips of the man she loved. If I Killed You, I’d Be Doing You a Favor, by Mexican author Mónica Soto Icaza #forasexylife, is a fun, sensory, erotic, playful novel based on a real story. If drama can be good gossip, why not fictionalize it?
Our body is made for pleasure. That’s why sex is fun, eye-opening, a source of self-esteem and joy; an expansive experience, born with the call to make you happy. Since knowledge is power, this book offers ideas, tips, and much more to guide you toward a freer, more open and deeply self-aware experience of your own sexuality. The Misadvice Book of Sex will help you reclaim your body, your pleasure, so that you—and only you—get to choose how to live them.
This is the book that abusers and liars don’t want you to read. Don’t buy this book if you have never had your heart broken, if you have never given up your dignity for love, if you have never been made to feel worthless, if you have never doubted your intelligence, if you have never questioned your decisions. This book contains very politically incorrect advice for life, romantic relationships, and other circumstances, because enough is enough of suffering for love.
If you hadn’t learned to love through possession, how would you love? If you hadn’t learned to relate through sacrifice, how would you relate? If you hadn’t learned to repress your true desires, how would you experience freedom? The Polyamory addresses issues such as the social construction of monogamy, romantic love, and jealousy; reactions to infidelity; the relationship with one’s own desire; and the ability to make decisions that contradict what you’ve believed your whole life. No one else but you walks in your shoes. No one else but you wakes up inside of your brain every day. So it is not others who should fit comfortably in your footprints or be reflected with pride in your pupils. Sexual freedom is powerful. Let’s reclaim free love. One polyamorous person at a time.

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